It’s gotten a little ridiculous, folks.
I mean, don’t you think so?
All of this craziness for stuff?
We really don’t need more stuff.
The truth is, we need more time with family, friends, and maybe reusing, re-purposing, and recycling the things we already have.
Ok, so it’s not fair of me to tell you that you should be doing crafts, but I think you can agree that we really don’t need more stuff.
I went shopping on Black Friday about 4 years ago and it was awful. Admittedly, I didn’t start out at 4 in the morning, but I did get out the door around 9. I managed to shop at about 5 different stores and bought pretty much, well… nothing. I think I may have bought a pair of cute fuzzy socks for myself, a shirt for Chris, and some log-cabin-y items for my kitchen. I think I may have also scored a couple of good deals on wrapping paper and craft supplies.
But, here’s the thing: I didn’t get home until 9 pm.
And I’m not sure I saved enough money to justify being out all day, eating practically nothing (an Auntie Anne pretzel is really nothing, when you think about it), and not spending some quality couch-time with my husband (something I would give a limb for nowadays).
AND… I still had to go out multiple times over the following weeks to complete my Christmas shopping anyway.
So, I stopped shopping on Black Friday. And I did it just in time, too.
This is what it’s come to? People bolting up from their Thanksgiving dinner to rush out to buy more stuff? Geez.
“Grandma, that was a great meal, but you know what’s greater? Getting a bunch of new toys for my bratty kid who doesn’t even play with the toys he/she already has! Thanksloveyoubye!”
And don’t tell me y’all weren’t drinking some wine with that turkey and then decided to DRIVE.
Anyway, I now spend Black Friday at home. I call it “White Friday,” because I spend the day cleaning my house. It doesn’t sound like a ton of fun, but for me, it kind of is. I’m in my pajamas, I’m eating turkey day leftovers, and my husband is around helping. We put on Christmas music, get silly, and have a good time.
I think this is a far better choice.
Maybe you shop on Black Friday because perhaps you don’t have family around (or you can’t stand your family). Or, maybe it has become a “tradition” to shop on Black Friday. Well, that’s fine, but consider this: what about the people who work at the stores? Is it possible that they have families and they don’t want to be working? Is it possible that they work anyway because we have a crappy economy, they don’t want to lose their job, and because of crazy-Black-Friday-shoppers, they MUST work?
Maybe it’s not about Black Friday, but maybe just how CRAZY things have become… like the stores opening right after Thanksgiving dinner? And the fact that people are trampling each other, fighting, shooting, stabbing… all for… stuff? What happened to “peace on earth and good will towards men” and women/children/retail workers?
Here’s the thing: if no one showed up on Black Friday (or on Thanksgiving Thursday), the stores wouldn’t be open. It’s consumer supply-and-demand, folks.
If you must shop this weekend, consider doing so on Small Business Saturday. Go downtown, visit a local small business (no, this does NOT include your “local” Walmart) and support their business.
I’m not here to be the judge and jury of Black Friday shoppers. Really, it’s none of my business how you spend your Thanksgiving or Black Friday. But I do ask this: if you are going to shop on Black Friday, at least be kind to others – especially those working this weekend.