If you’re anything like me, you may be longing for the simplicity of a summer like the one you had as a child. For me, it was the 80’s. They were the kind of summers where the days were full of freedom and stretched forever into a golden sun and all you really needed to make you happy was a Slip ‘n’ Slide and a box of Fla.Vor. Ice pops. However… if you’re anything like me today – well, the nostalgia may be a bit harder to grab if you’re the mom of little people. You may be feeling overwhelmed and pressured to provide a summer full of All the Awesome Things to Make All the Memories – and I have totally been there – but I’m here to say a simple summer where you are truly present with your loved ones and relaxed will be so much better. Go ahead and give a few of those Pinterest crafts and activities a try – but all those other days in between? Well, here’s my idea of how to do it – in 5 steps – mom style. You can relive your childhood summers while letting your kids in on the secrets to a really rad summer, too. And even if you’re not a mom – I’m pretty sure this list will work for you, too.
So, without further adieu:
5 Steps to an “Old School” Summer
- Step 1: Turn on the radio to the local “oldies” station (or whichever station is playing the most 80’s music). Pandora, Spotify, iTunes, and satellite radio don’t count. You need to hear all the local ads. It’s part of the charm. Plus, you can do step #2 during commercial breaks.
- Step 2: Mix up a big pitcher of lemonade, iced tea, Kool Aid, or Tang. Choose which childhood memory you want to relive and try not to think about the ingredients. If you’re feeling guilty about sugar and food dyes, go organic – but not neurotic.
- Step 3: Go outside and stay there. Your backyard, front porch, local park, beach… whatever. Just get outside and even if you do nothing but sit and listen to the radio from step #1, it’s good for your soul. If it’s raining? Go to the mall. Meet up with a friend for an Orange Julius there. You know you want to. Bring the stroller and stay away from the Disney store and you’ll be fine.
- Step 4: Let the kids get wet and dirty. It’s ok, really. This is why you have towels and bathtubs and washing machines. Don’t have kids? Do a friend or family member a favor and offer to babysit – and get THEIR kids good and dirty. Or, you could just let your own inhibitions down and run through the sprinkler yourself.
- Step 5: Put your phone, iPad, tablet, computer – whatever electronic device you are tethered to – away. Turn it off, put it down, and go have an awesome summer!
Repeat steps 1-5 as often as possible from now through Labor Day, and in the meantime, you know what I’ll be doing.